Good Food Fast & Friendly

A trip to Atlanta would not be complete without a trip or two to Waffle House. Every visit is an adventure. One never knows if your order will be what you requested or what you will see or hear. My ears are fine tuned, mouth is watering and my stomach is growling in anticipation.

Weiner Dogs Rule!

The 2008 Chicago City Sticker Art Contest finalists were just revealed. The theme this year was "Dog Friendly Chicago".

Lookman Muhammed's design incorporated a sleek and sexy Daschund and the city skyline. Take a few minutes to check out the finalists and cast your vote for your favorite.

Vote Daschund! (Lookman, participant #7)

Blogging Houseplant

Plummeting stock markets, corporate chaos and piles of financial drama unfolding everyday. I can still find a thing or two that will give me a chuckle.

Take a minute to check out the blogging houseplant Midori-san.

Lost Shirt

I encountered this random dress shirt on the way to the office. It looked a bit scrappy, so I left it alone. The last thing I want is to be attacked by a wild dress shirt.

I Never Knew

I never knew he was so sad we have been neglecting him.

Marriage

I was combing my social networking sites and noticed a reference from Anderson Cooper about "Gay Marriage". I clicked on the link and read a thoughtful post in favor of eliminating discrimination in our great country.

I couldn't resist reading some of the comments and quickly realized how much work the gay, lesbian and straight allies have to do. I don't step out of the box all that much, but some of the insane rhetoric pushed me out of the closet and over the edge.

My response to one of the comments:

Cindy … When you peel away the layers of fear, discrimination against gays and lesbians is at the core of this issue. Let me share some of my challenges:

1. In many states, I can still be fired from a job for being gay, with no recourse.
2. I can be denied the right to visit or make health related decisions for my spouse if he is hospitalized.
3. My spouse can be denied bereavement leave when I die.
4. My spouse doesn’t get a share of my Social Security or pension after I die.
5. My spouse doesn’t automatically inherit my estate after I die.

As a gay man, these are only a few of the issues I have to think about everyday. Please tell me now how marriage between same-gender couples is so different from interracial marriage?

Kevin Tibbles

Hanging with Kevin Tibbles.

More Obama-rama

Throngs of Obama fans

Obamarama

waiting in the security line for the Chicago Obama-rama.